A trucker's wife can be a help to her husband when he's on the road and be a blessing to him when he's home. But without understanding what it's like to be a truck driver , they'll misunderstand some aspects of the work . Therefore the trucker husband, as a man , generally doesn't express his needs through words. When a trucker gets home he wants nothing but just BE. He wants to enjoy the comforts that he has missed while on the road. He doesn't need a to-do list, he doesn't want an rambling update on local news, he, frankly, doesn't want 'to work'. which means he doesn't want to speak and he doesn't want to hear. that does not